When is enough really, ...enough!?
On the "bump" someone posed the question about how many IVF's do you believe you would do; would you let your RE decide for you and trust their advice?
This got me thinking. . . . WHen would I throw in the towel. . . could I really ever give up? Will there be a point when I can't go on anymore?
I've come to the conclusion that the short answer is: When I run out of money.
The Long answer?
Since we have already done one entirely OOP without refund and had a BPF turned to BFN we have used some of our cash. Now I am doing the FET with our first two frosties. . . and if we get bad news, another round with the other two frosties will follow.
Once all frosties are gone. . . we would move to a "Shared Risk" plan. It comes with three IVF cycles and any FET's.
If after three additional IVF's and FET's we are still not preggo-- I'd have to re-evaluate my mental state.
If we're still sane, I'd re-use the money we'd be refunded towards however many cycles it gave us. Then-- admit defeat; wave the white flag.
Hopefully, it won't come to that.
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